Tuesday, April 28, 2009

19


Happy 19th birthday to me!
In case you're wondering about the cupcakes shown above, that's my birthday cake. Or shall I say, birthday cakes;) I wanted something unconventional this year, see. The cupcakes certainly raised eyebrows back home but everyone liked it nonetheless.
Thank you Mum, Dad, Yish, Kheng Meng, Jennifer and Adeline for the presents! And thank you everyone for the well-wishes! You all rock!
19
Shi Jiu
Juu Kyuu
I'm gonna have to get used to the idea that I'm 19, and no longer 18. How time flies!
P.S Happy birthday to Zephy too! My blog is now 3 years old!

Friday, April 24, 2009

The double irony of the AWARE saga

The AWARE saga, which has been dominating the headlines for the past few weeks, has just turned uglier. All that public mud-slinging is bad enough as it is. Now, it seems that death threats have been made against members of the new exco. That's not all. The police had to be called in on a few occasions, and a press conference that brought the two camps together nearly erupted into a catfight.

I've been following the news and reading plenty of commentaries on the issue, and have come to the conclusion that the entire hoo-ha is quite pathetic. See, with all that ugly politicking going on, the biggest loser at the end of the day in this saga is AWARE itself. The 2 camps are fighting furiously for an organisation they care about, but ironically, their actions have only hurt the reputation of AWARE. AWARE will not be remembered for the laws it helped changed, the women it stood up for or the noble causes it pushed for, but for the big power struggle of 2009.

The second irony of this debacle was identified by my Mum. She says that is very ironic that an organization that champions women's rights i.e show that women are just as capable as men has proven otherwise to all and sundry through it's actions. All that shouting, insults, threats and veering dangerously close to getting physical have reinforced the commonly-held stereotypes that: a) Women cannot work as a team b) Women are emotional, get personal too easily and bitchy.

It's quite appaling, the way each side airs the other's dirty laundry in public for the public to oogle and for the media to lap up. Personally, I support the old guard because I think the new exco are a rather shady lot with fundamentalist inclinations (and if there's one group of people I absolutely abhor, it's religious fundamentalists). Unfortunately, the old guard and their supporters haven't been conducting themselves very well (as are the new exco). Boycotting DBS because Josie Lau is in it? Cancelling DBS credit cards? Starting a shouting match at a press conference? How very unprofessional. Geez, if you want to be voted back in, you should prove yourself worthy of RESPECT.

This saga has only made me loose confidence in the organization. There's a saying that goes along the line of 'how do you expect to save others when you have difficulty saving yourself?' I'd like to end this post by sharing a quote by this netizen whose take on the issue I agree with (and also because Gundam 00 is mentioned;) ):

Reading about Thio Su Mien and her apparent behind-the-scenes masterminding of the AWARE hostile takeover (see the STOMP and Trevvy Forum threads), I am reminded of Gundam 00’s Ribbons Almark, the secretive Innovators and the brutal A-Laws. We all want to change the world. Nothing wrong with that. The problem is who has the right of way, and how do we account for the collateral damage?

Friday, April 17, 2009

Singapore HR Congress 2009


Some student volunteers and I


I don't know if any of my colleagues feel the same way, but I miss the Congress (if you are reading this, A, you must be thinking 'you siao arh, you'). It's a little hard to believe that the big event we spent months and months planning for is finally over and done with. In fact, I feel a little lost during these post-Congress times. Allow me to recount how our most important event of the year went:

Our Congress is a 2 day event, attended by a thousand or so participants, both international and local. The media was there too. A BIG event as you can see.

Day 1 is the more nerve-racking of the 2. For my manager, it was ensuring that the inaugural HR Walk, arrival of the guest-of-honour (a Minister) and the signing of the MOUs went without a hitch. For me, it was speaker management. Come afternoon, it was my time to shine, because that's when the many concurrent sessions take place and I'm in charge of ensuring that they start smoothly.

To get an idea of what I had to do, I invite you to step into my shoes (high-heeled, black, bought from Bata). Then get running from room to room, poking your head in to check if all the equipment is working fine. While you're there, brief the student volunteers and staff members on what they should do. If you see a speaker, smile, introduce yourself as Speaker Liaison Officer, shake hands and enquire if there's anything they might need for their session. All the while your phone is ringing, with people trying to contact you about all sorts of things. "YY, XXX is here, please receive him". "YY! Come over, we need help" "YY, did you do this?" "YY, what do we do if XXX happens?"

I tell you, it's no easy task trying to manage 12 speakers, staff volunteers and student volunteers in an afternoon. Besides managing people, there are also screw-ups to manage. There was a rather bad one at about 3pm, the details of which I won't go into, except to say that it resulted in an ugly scene.

So that was Day 1 to you, crazy and super kan-cheong, for all of us especially me, A and F.

Day 2, thankfully, was much less stressful. It's true that what doesn't kill you can only make you stronger. Having survived the madness of Day 1, I was more confident and tougher when Day 2 came round. Also, there were no big screw-ups like yesterday, only minor hiccups that I was able to handle. The Day 2 sessions went rather smoothly and I was able to relax more. There were even some comic moments. Once, I was running while making my rounds when I spotted my manager and a speaker. Immediately, I stopped to greet them..... and the shoe I was wearing fell off! Right in front of the speaker, my manager and all the exhibitors in the vicinity! The three of us had a good laugh over my Cinderella moment and my manager was like, 'As you can see, she's VERY enthusiastic about her job'. LOL, I was always running around, even though I didn't really have to, simply because I felt rather enthusiastic that day. All that energy was channelled into running wherver I go. 'We should get her a pair of skates'. said our Executive Director. 'More like, a jet pack!' I quipped.

At the end of the Congress, we shook hands, thumped each other on our backs and congratulated each other on a job well done. J gave out cab vouchers to everyone in appreciation of our hard work. I felt sad the whole thing had come to an end. Yes, we had to deal with all sorts of crap, both before and during the Congress. Yes, we got ourselves worried, frustruated and stressed over the Congress. Yes, we stayed overtime and worked on Saturday and Good Friday because of the Congress. But I think it was all worth it in the end, given the generally positive feedback we received and for me, a speaker appreciated my work and told my manager, 'She writes very nice emails!' Most of all, I miss being Speaker Liaison Officer. It was a difficult task, all right, but this is also the biggest leadership role I've ever undertaken. I came to realize that what I like best about the job, is the fact that I feel important, valued and feel useful.

I don't know if any of my colleagues feel the same (and A, if you maanged to read this till near the end, you're going to shake your head in disbelief at this and go 'you're really siao') ...... but I don't mind doing it all over again.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Busy, busy, UTTERLY busy

Signs that work is making you loose your sanity

  • You sprout bullshit. For instance, yesterday I wanted to tell my collegue 'Good Friday is a public holiday'. For some weird reason, 'Friday is a good holiday' left my lips instead.
  • You swear more often. I believe I uttered about 6 different swear words yesterday, from Hokkien ones to American ones.
  • You find yourself re-reading something over and over again, because information is taking a longer time than usual to sink into your brain.
  • You keep spacing-out.
  • You develop an aversion to telephones (not me, but my colleague)
  • There's so much to do the Law of Diminishing Marginal Returns sets in.
  • As a result, you can't think straight and make the same mistake of printing something wrongly twice, wasting enough paper to make one delegate book.

With Congress just round the corner (next Tues and Wed in fact), everyone at SHRI is in a mad frenzy. Especially my department. On Friday (a public holiday) and Saturday, the whole of my department is going back to work so as to wrap up any unfinished work (plenty) before next week. Good think I'll get overtime pay, though perhaps a holiday would be more prefable.

I swear, I've never been so busy before! Even the 'A' level preparations wasn't as busy as this, for I could at least cope with the pace of work and relax when I needed to. Not so this time; I could barely stop and catch my breadth. Yesterday was the most hectic day of my life. I was bombarded with all sorts of tasks left, right and centre, most of which were urgent. There was so much to do that I stayed back at office till about 9.30pm, but even then, still didn't complete the last task. It didn't help that there was this woman who kept calling and spoke in a rather condescending tone. Thanks, you twit, you just made my day - even worse.

But for all the stress and frustruation work has been giving me these days, I don't hate my job. In fact, it's fun in a way, being in the thick of all the action and knowing that you play an important role in ensuring an event runs smoothly. I bitch about work quite a lot, but the truth is, I really am happy to be involved. Also, the people in my department have been very supportive and kind, especially A, F and J. I don't think I'd have survived thus far if not for them.

Congress is only 4 days away. Gambate, people! We're all in this together!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Gundam 00 movie!!!!!!!


No kidding. Apparently, at the end of the last Gundam 00 Season 2 episode, there was an announcement about a Gundam 00 movie that's slated to be released next year. Pardon me for a moment but,


WAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Gundam 00 is my other favourite anime, besides Evangelion (in fact, it came close to bumping Evangelion off the fav-anime throne. In the end I simply decided to have 2 favourite animes). So far, I've completed Season 1 but have yet to watch Season 2. I will get round to doing so, of course, before I go to university.


Anyway, today being April Fool's Day, I thought I'd share some really hilarious Gundam 00 spoofs I found at http://community.livejournal.com/gundam00. Many thanks to _faded_fallen for the following pieces of ingenuity:


EMBRACE the dark side, with Hallelujah.



LOL. I think the rose 'n violet Gundam would've suited Tieria better though. Y'know, his pink cardigan and other strange girly inclinations...




So that's what Tieria has been doing in Veda all the while......How naughty.



And my favourite.....




YES! YES, OH YES! My sentiments exactly, Kinue! Why, oh why, did Sunrise include such useless, irritating characters as Saji and Louise ? Louise is especially annoying because she is such a bimbo (although I did feel sorry for her after __________ happened). The two have very little to do with the story, if at all. Perhaps they'll play a more important role in Season 2, but if that's the case, introduce them in Season 2! Otherwise, axe those 2 nitwits off Season 1 altogether!


LOL, that's all for now. Expect more postings on Gundam 00 in the future!